Question...if I am inviting people from all over the country to this wedding, is it okay not to send bridal shower invitations to people who live in Florida or Arizona? They can just as well bring a gift to the wedding. Shower too far to travel. Or maybe I should make the gesture, because I'm not putting registry information in the wedding invitations. Heavens, no. Gah. Or maybe I should just put the registry information into the wedding invitations of people who do more than 500 miles away?
I'm planning an upstate bridal shower since most of Jason's family is up here. I wonder what's going on with my downstate one. O.o;; It's easier to transport me between upstate and downstate than to make a ton of people travel one place or the other with the price of gas.
And a bunch of ladies on my friends list are not going to be married by the time I get the invitations out, but they will by the time the wedding comes around. How the hell am I suppose to address these things? Maybe I shouldn't stress over that...the place settings I'm making myself will only have first names on them, and I may be using nicknames. I'm creating personalized beaded keychain place settings to double as showing where people sit so I will probably use nicknames on a lot of those.
Also wondering if only having Liberty Travel registry is okay...we don't really need everything we'd put on our Macy's registry. But maybe I should make something small at another store.
Bachleorette party...methinks it should be night before wedding due to travel, and I want a lot of my girlfriends besides the bridesmaids to go...but maybe I should just do it with the bridesmaids at QXT's the week before in NJ. The only BM that won't be going is my cousin Daniela who is a minor.
I'm taking over more wedding planning from my mother, her health isn't too great. She's been to the cardiologist three times in the past two weeks and this worries me. She's around the same age Grampa was when his heart started giving him shit. And Grama is in the hospital again. Something's wrong with her colon. I'm assuming it's just scar tissue (I found out last week she was in the hospital again) so I am hoping since I haven't gotten any bad news it's just scar tissue from her surgery a few months ago. Yes, these are my mom's parents I speak of.
theknot.com is pissing me off. Their servers suck. LEARN HOW TO CODE PEOPLE. I'm trying to work on guest list but it is not making it easy. I deleted my Macy's wedding registry because the coding on their website sucks and wouldn't let me update my address, it was still showing the Sandy Creek address but it let me update the change in wedding date. Retards. Maybe I'll go to Sears or JCPenny, ~
Kaine977 thinks Target and Walmart suck. I
like Target though, it's much nicer than Walmart without being as expensive.
I'm taking over more wedding planning and I'm OCD...and still, people think it's impossible for me to turn into a Bridezilla because I'm too nice. I can be nice AND be a Bridezilla...muhahahaha.